Deepen a conversation at mutual pace
Whena trusted friend and you have unhurried time
Ask whether they would like a more personal conversation. Offer one honest experience, then invite theirs. Take turns, listen and let either person pass.
- Try saying
- What has changed what you value lately? We can keep it lighter if you prefer.
Start tiny
Ask permission for one personal question.
SafetyDepth is voluntary. Keep confidences and avoid pushing for trauma or secrets.
Greater Good in Action, 36 Questions for Increasing Closeness, based on Aron et al. (1997). Read the source ↗ Editorial friendship practice; timing and adaptations are suggested starting choices, not tested prescriptions.
Mastery: Practices you develop over weeks through skill, planning and trade-offs.



