Foundation

Decline a request you cannot fit

Whena new request exceeds your capacity

Check the request against your commitments. If it cannot fit, decline clearly. Offer an alternative only if you can honor it. For assigned work, ask what should move.

Try saying
I can’t take that on this week.

Start tiny

Say that you need to check capacity.

SafetyIf you fear retaliation or harm, choose safer support instead of confrontation.

Evidence grade CPractitioner method or editorial idea

Mayo Clinic. Being assertive: Reduce stress, communicate better. Read the source ↗ Documented communication guidance; capacity and everyday examples are adaptations.

Foundation: The load-bearing practices you return to. Build the base and keep it in play.

From the screen to the fridge

Keep your practice in sight.

Library cards are free to read and print. Choose the ones you’ll use, put them where their cues happen, and keep returning to the practice. Our boxed collections are separate printed editions.