Foundation

Explain what you meant differently

Whensomeone takes your words differently

Name the misunderstanding without blaming their listening. Restate your meaning with a concrete example, then ask whether that clears it up.

Try saying
By leave early, I meant before the final bus, not before dinner.

Start tiny

Say, “Let me put that another way.”

Evidence grade CPractitioner method or editorial idea

Centre for Clinical Interventions. Assert Yourself!, Module 4: How to Behave More Assertively. Read the source ↗ Documented assertiveness methods; this everyday example is an editorial adaptation.

Foundation: The load-bearing practices you return to. Build the base and keep it in play.

From the screen to the fridge

Keep your practice in sight.

Library cards are free to read and print. Choose the ones you’ll use, put them where their cues happen, and keep returning to the practice. Our boxed collections are separate printed editions.