Give One Clear Instruction at Cleanup
Whenyou notice toys blocking a walkway
Get nearby and say one specific action, such as “Put the blocks in this basket.” Wait for that step before adding another.
Why it works
“Clean this up” makes a beginner decide what goes where and what comes first. A clear first step removes that extra puzzle.
Start tiny
Point to one block and its basket.
What you’ll notice
Your request gets shorter, and your child has somewhere concrete to start.
When it slips
If nothing happens, check they heard and know how. Demonstrate or do the first item together rather than getting louder.
SafetyDo not force eye contact; use a communication cue your child can comfortably access.
CDC. Tips for Giving Directions. Essentials for Parenting Toddlers and Preschoolers. Read the source ↗ Household recipe adapted for this deck; Guidance for toddlers and preschoolers; accommodations may be needed.
Foundation: Small recurring actions with little setup. Choose anchors that fit your day.



